Monday, July 2, 2012
Crazy Busy? Not So Much
Well, I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum. I am "crazy lazy". Afternoons are frequently spent resting in Harry's apartment while we watch television. Or reading in the backyard while I'm watching the pond fish swim back in forth.
It seems normal to me. But then I talk to people all the time who tell me how "crazy busy" they are. They have club meetings, golf lessons, yoga, board of directors meetings, pottery at the studio, cooking classes, flower arranging workshops, and book club meetings. They also volunteer as candy stripers at the local hospital.
I don't like clubs. For that matter I don't like meetings either. I know how to cook. I know how to read books and stick flowers in a vase. And I hate hospitals because there are sick people in hospitals.
I mainly do what I like to do. That's how I like to live my life. I see friends, but only if I want to see friends. I play with my dogs, but then I also ignore them sometimes. I cook up a storm if I'm in the mood, and if not I go out or order in. I keep my house in order but I'm no fanatic about it. It's a slow leisurely way to live. I take hour long bubble baths because they soothe me. Some days, I don't feel like it so I don't do it. In other words, I'm not "crazy busy". I don't think I ever have been. I've been tired when I was working 8 to 10 hours a day, and commuting an hour each way. Coming home and making dinner was sort of a chore, but I did it. I don't think it made me "crazy busy" though. It just made me tired.
People I know will call me and ask me "What does your schedule look like?". Say what? I don't have a schedule. I do things on the fly. Call me up at 10 AM and ask me if I want to join you in going to a ballgame in the afternoon. I will probably say yes. Call me at noon and ask me if I want to come over and drink margaritas with you and I'll probably say yes. Call me anytime and ask me if I want to take a walk with you and exercise the dogs. I'll say yes.
A lot of what people do that makes them "crazy busy" is self imposed. Don't make all those plans and commitments. If you want to stay in bed all day on a Saturday, do it. Don't join all those clubs and make all those plans.
Learn to be "crazy lazy". You just might like it.